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marhaban ya ramadhan

11 bulan berlalu dan kini kita bertemu denganmu.. Ramadhan, bulan penuh berkah dan ampunan. Saatnya menyucikan hati dan membersihkan diri. Semoga kita termasuk orang-orang yang berhasil di bulan puasa ini dan mendapat keredhaan-Nya.

Ramadhan juga adalah bulan penuh kesabaran. Segala hal yang tak ingin terjadi balaslah dengan senyuman yang tulus dari hati dan perbuatan baik. Nescaya Allah swt akan memberikan jalan terbaik.

Untuk para sahabat, kaum kerabat serta yang mengenali diriku, dengan segala kerendahan hati inginku memohon maaf atas kesalahan sama ada disengajakan atau tidak. marhaban ya ramadhan.. :)

semoga ramadhan kali ini lebih baik dari ramadhan sebelumnya.. AMIN :)

masak - masak

when i was little i used to think cooking is the most hardest thing to do because it seems so hard to remember what to put next, how to know whether its cook or not. *kecik2 dah critical thinking* haha but as time goes by actually its easy as abc & 123. :) im not saying im a good cook but insyallah if someone wants me to cook something then i'll work my ass of it. *tak baik tak tunaikan permintaan orang, nanti kempunan pulak*

besides at this age now dah kena start pandai masak dishes yang boleh dikatakan rumit jgk la sebab nanti dah kawen senang. kena pulak dapat laki yang cerewet yang lidahnya memang kena makan masakan melayu je memang menguji kesabaran, keimanan seorang wanita mati la i u olls tak reti nak masak. haha. thats why kena start belajar. i nasihatkan utk smua yang membaca juga. :) bak kata orang tua2, setinggi mana seorang wanita itu belajar atau bekerjaya, tempatnya di dapur juga. tak gitu? lagipun skrg ni banyak sangat maid2 yang masak untuk si bapa, suami, boipren dan seangkatan dengannya. tak best la kat situ sebab as kaum wanita, kekuatan kita untuk menjanjikan kebahagiaan keluarga ialah dengan memasak dengan air tangan sendiri, baru lah syiiioookkk.

tak cakap pun salah ambek maid ni, bagus jugak ade maid sebab at least boleh tolong2 kemas rumah but when it comes to cook, let the wife or mommy do it. its better that way because food is a need but good cooked food is a want. oh! ni inference from baba " semakin boyot perut si ayah, semakin sedap masakan si ibu " haha. now i know why perut baba makin boyot. :P

ape lagi, jom blaja masak! :)

what is a perfect girlfriend ?

They say there’s no such thing as perfection, but maybe after u read this u may think that u have a perfect one :)

She dresses up all cute and pretty every time you take her out on a date.This is her way of keeping you interested as your eyes are locked solely on her. You stare at other girls instead, and she gets hurt and upset that all her time and effort were put to waste. You call her insecure.

She holds on to you like she’s never letting you go. This is her way of telling other girls that she’s lucky that she has you, and no, you’re not available. You call her clingy.

She calls you the sweetest nicknames, or ones that only you two will understand. This is her way of saying how special you are, and that there’s nobody else in this world like you. You call other girls “babe” just as how you would call her, and she gets disappointed. You call her shallow and jealous.

She checks up on you, making sure you made it home safely or that you’re not out getting yourself into any kind of trouble. This is her way of showing how often she thinks about you and that she worries constantly because that’s how much she cares. You say she’s nagging.

She cries when you do or say something wrong. This is her way of saying “That hurt only because YOU said it and I love YOU.” You call her overly sensitive and emotional.

She loves you more than you love her. This is her way of dealing with the fact that your relationship wasn’t like how it used to be, but she is willing to make room for more love and some changes. You push her away. You call her dramatic and annoying.

So go ahead. Leave the insecure, clingy, jealous, nagging, overly sensitive, annoying girl.

She will soon be much happier in the arms of someone who actually deserves her:

the perfect boyfriend.

We already try our best to be as perfect as we can, eventually you need to open your eyes and take a deep look. Somehow you will see what we sees in you.

p/s : i hope izzat will read this :)

ADIOS!

whats a man to do.. when he's loving two?

last week i went to JJ. while i was on the escalator, heard this lady saying "laki aku dah ade bini satu lagi " to a friend of her. it was a dejavu. cos i dreamt of a lady saying that in my dream long time ago. haha.

Even my mom made a conclusion..

in this country.. (most cases la okay, its a silly joke from mama)

indians always has an issue with drinking today,

chinese forever with the gambling issue,

Malays?

well malays.. hundreds of them with one issue.

ONE....perempuan.

lying,cheating,having more than one gf/wife. :D haha

i know its not against our religion. and end up saying *isteri yg mengizinkan suaminya kawen satu lagi akan dpt payung emas di akhirat kelak* wtv la kan. but isteri mane yg sanggup berkongsi kasih? :P

but people nowadays are just doing it for the wrong reasons. no offence yea :)

its horrible. the pain the suffering one hasto go through, it gets to me each time i hear these stories. hmm

stay away pls.

JUST STAY AWAY!

u are just so annoying.

why are u so annoying?

because thats the fact!

u are an annoying person!

real brewed

friends, oh my dear friend..

why are you so complicated?

why cant everyone be friends with everybody?

so now we have :

friends

friend of friends

good friends

best friends

true friends

~~bad friends?~~

enemy like but hey! we still say hi kinda friends!

what more, friends?

funny when..

our friends are fighting then we ended up having some cold war. you get hurt bcos ppl say bad things bout you but you say nasty things too. its really funny that you think you are a friend to somenone but actually you're not even their FRIEND. hmmm..

been burnt

Things said sometimes are to make us feel stronger.

Say many words you want, but actions always speak louder.

Speaking too many words is never better than be in silent.

Stingiest person is not them who never give things away,

not them who never want to share,

but those who never learn to help,

never try to understand,

never try to learn,

never try to listen,

never willing to try..

is good to be important,

but it is important to be good.

ancient thought on us

material from Plato, about menstruation..

"... the womb is an animal within a woman which is desirous of bearing children. If this desire remains unsatisfied for a long time, the womb becomes restless and starts to wander about the body; as a consequences, the passages for breath becomes blocked, and this causes distress and 'disorders of all kinds'. The problem will continue until the woman has sex with a man and becomes pregnant. "

while Aristotle says

" ... women can conceive without feeling pleasure, and feel pleasure without conceiving. "

-Sue Blundell, Women in Ancient Greece

well it was a good assumption since they had no further intelligence and technology to distinguish the main reason behind such behavior of the women in the ancient times.